STUPID & SENSELESS: PART INFINITY!!!!!
Last updated: 18th Aug ’16
(ETA: he’s done it again)
FINALLY, an edition about the man that started it all! We knew it was coming and here it is. I would first like to announce that, not only is Jared a human being that breathes oxygen, he’s also a superhero:
LOL. Someone posted this on the ONTD post and I laughed myself SILLY. No wonder this dude has a complex.
In today’s edition, a server in Minnesota was extremely mean to Jared and apparently ruined his entire night, month, life, bad hair day, Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving as well as his entire adult life. So in response, he publicly blasted her on Facebook, posted her picture and was unapologetic about it. In fact, an unedited version of the post is still up (or it was last time I checked)
ETA: He apparently removed the post and had this to say (after the fact of course):
In regards to my recent post, please please PLEASE do not send ill-will in anybody’s direction. I felt it necessary to voice my opinion, as I have made a promise to myself that I will not let somebody mistreat me just to swallow it, as if I “deserve” it. It’s a promise I hope y’all can make to yourselves as well. But it’s in the past now. And I sincerely hope everybody involved will be better for it. Please, for the love of Chuck, don’t send any hatred or ill-will in their direction. That is the exact OPPOSITE of what I want.
He’s still a tool and it was EXACTLY what he wanted.
ETA 2: Oh, wow. Apparently lawyers are involved now. He’s really messed up badly this time. SMH. More & the original post under the cut.
ETA 3: The person that Jared initially responded to has graciously allowed me to add their (now deleted) comment to this post. It can be found below.
I’m stealing from this post on ONTD:
This is just too bad. I can mock Jared and everything, but this is her life. I hope he can sleep tonight. SMH.
Original post begins here:
Here’s what he had to say in case the picture doesn’t load:
“Hey BK at @ConstantineMpls you are the meanest human being that I have ever, in my adult life, been around. I hope you find your peace. Please know that I will never ever in my life be back at @HotelIvy or @ConstantineMplsin Minneapolis because I have never felt the hatred and spite and judgement that I feel from you.”
‘I hope you find your peace’ — EYE. ROLL.
According to ONTD, this led to “fans rating the restaurant one star, finding “BK” on social media, harassing her and causing the restaurant to deactivate their facebook entirely for the time being.”
Witless fangirls in the comments were wondering why people were saying that Jared was mean when he ‘wished her peace’. LOL, I was literally like…
It’s called sarcasm, folks. Please look it up. You know damn well he’d sooner hope that she take a shower in a steaming pile of garbage than find peace. Oh, but they know Jared personally (of course) and he’s always nice to them!!!! Probably because he wants them to keep spending the thousands of dollars that indirectly pays his mortgage(s).
Going back to the post, what a classless thing to do. You can complain all you like, leave a bad review, complain to management, but you don’t post pictures of people and enough information that they can be identified. That’s pretty fucked up. Perhaps a ‘celebrity’ like Jared finds it hard to grasp why something like that isn’t okay.
Someone was brave enough to try and talk some sense into him:
|“I’m sorry, I love Jared Padalecki and I always will (I made a trip down to a SPN convention in Houston in 2015 pretty much just to see him) but this is very disappointing to me.
I understand that whatever this woman has done frustrated you, Jared Padalecki (the mere fact that she’s playing on her phone while clearly on the clock at a hospitality job really angers me). But posting her picture like this to your FB, which you know is followed by millions of people – many of them very unbalanced human beings who are ready to bring out the torches and pitchforks every single time they think someone has so much as insulted your honor – is extremely irresponsible.
Bad customer service or no, you have likely ruined this young woman’s life for a long time to come, if not endangered it, because I have already seen some disturbing troups of fans who have dredged up her real name and are making plans to publicly destroy and/or come after her for this.
I am very disappointed in you right now, Jared Padalecki, because I have considered you a role model for years, and this is disturbingly vindictive for someone who is always touting the importance of standing up for others and not passing judgment.
I hope that you will seriously consider keeping future grievances with hotel employees between yourself and the manager. I know you’re a great person and I love your work, but please be more careful about things like this in the future. Like it or not, your status as a celebrity gives you a lot of power and also a lot of responsibility, and you need to be careful not to abuse those.
A Concerned Fan”
However, when taken to task for his behavior, he went further and unleashed this steaming pile of crap:
|“[name removed] Thank you for voicing your opinions and your concern. You are, of course, entitled to both. As far as last night goes, I didn’t receive “poor service”. I didn’t have mustard instead of mayonnaise on my burger, and she didn’t give me too many or too few cubes of ice in my drink. The picture of her playing on her phone was the NICEST thing she did during the course of the evening…… No. I was subjected to a mean, spiteful human being. Period. She was mean. She was a bully. She, specifically, did several things that hurt mine (and our) feelings.
She made me feel singled out and not welcome and “lessthan” (maybe you’ve been in the same situation before?). She ruined my night (if not my trip) in Minnesota. Furthermore, I’m not incredibly happy to have you express that you believe I’m not entitled to share my concerns or unhappiness because I’m a “celebrity”. That’s akin to the people who told me that I should be “happy” because I’m “successful”, and that I shouldn’t have “depression” or “anxiety” because “famous people” are so “lucky”.
And I very much don’t appreciate being victim shamed, even though I’m “famous” and should just “deal with it and keep quiet about it”. At the end of the day, I am a human being that breathes oxygen. The same as you. And, sometimes, there are people who hurt my feelings intensely and I want to reach out to my social media family to express my hurt and let y’all know that I, too, sometimes run into mean people who aim to ruin my day.
As far as “keeping future grievances” more private? Simply put, no. I will not let you silence or censor me and my feelings the same way those in the past have tried to silence or censor or ignore or belittle my feelings. I’ve worked too hard for too long on myself to be told to take negativity that’s sent my way, and shut up about it, just because I’m a “celebrity”. I’m truly sorry that the existence of my hurt disappointed you, and I wish you peace and happiness. With love, jp.“
Does FB not allow paragraphs? My eyes. Anyway – I’m just gonna break this down because there’s too much stupid one in place. And before that, I’m going to just say that Jared Padalecki himself is a BULLY. Getting someone else to the dirty work for you is still bullying, but nice try, Jared. The fact that he doesn’t care says it all. Mind you, given that he boldly called someone’s death stupid and senseless, that’s not a big surprise.
ETA: THERE ARE SO MANY “””” JEEZ. BRUH, HOW MUCH EMPHASIS DO YOU NEED? And also, most of what’s in the quotation marks….isn’t even in the initial comment?
From reading the comment he’s responded to, and then reading his response again, I’ve come to the conclusion that Jared just marches to beat of a slow drum. It’s a completely exaggerated response to an extremely reasonable comment full valid points.
I’m also gonna go ahead and add some line breaks to his comment ’cause I can barely read it my damn self, lol!
I didn’t receive “poor service”. I didn’t have mustard instead of mayonnaise on my burger, and she didn’t give me too many or too few cubes of ice in my drink.
GET TO THE POINT
She, specifically, did several things that hurt mine (and our) feelings. She made me feel singled out and not welcome and “lessthan” (maybe you’ve been in the same situation before?). She ruined my night (if not my trip) in Minnesota.
YES, BUT HOW? WHAT THINGS? HOW CAN SHE SPECIFICALLY DO THINGS BUT YET, THE COMPLAINT IS WOEFULLY NON-SPECIFIC. Did she hurt him in the way that the commas in the first sentence hurt me, or did she actually do something. STOP BEING VAGUE!
And I very much don’t appreciate being victim shamed
Without knowing what BK did that was so awful, how the fuck are we supposed to read that he’s being victim shamed and go, ‘Huh, yeah, that jarpad – such a shame what happened to him! The service was great but damn, the server didn’t kiss his ass and she was MEANNNNN!!!’
Chill out and stop looking for validation, if you’re upset – fine. You don’t need to tell the world about it. Most of us have bigger things to worry about.
At the end of the day, I am a human being that breathes oxygen
I’m sure he got A+ in Biology class. Astute observation, Jared. Well done.
And, sometimes, there are people who hurt my feelings intensely and I want to reach out to my social media family to express my hurt and let y’all know that I, too, sometimes run into mean people who aim to ruin my day.
SOCIAL MEDIA FAMILY?????? LMAO. Someone needs to come back to reality. ALSO WHAT A LIAR! He wanted to ‘express his hurt’ and send his fans on a mission to completely ruin this girl’s life and get her fired.
I will not let you silence or censor me and my feelings the same way those in the past have tried to silence or censor or ignore or belittle my feelings. I’ve worked too hard for too long on myself to be told to take negativity that’s sent my way, and shut up about it, just because I’m a “celebrity”.
I like how famous and celebrity are in quotes, lol. He had to get some humblebragging in there, I guess. He might be famous and a celebrity but, he’s a human that breathes oxygen too! But, you know, he’s not going to apologise for being ‘famous’ and a ‘celebrity’. HOW DARE ANYONE TRY TO CENSOR HIM!!! /nostril flare.
You need to keep working on yourself, dude. Try a little humility and a little less bitch and we’ll reevaluate again at a later stage. And who are these random people telling him to take negativity because he’s a celebrity? They need to reword that and let him know that he has to learn how to accept it – because he’s a human being that breathes oxygen. Unless he wants to fight every single person that breathes the wrong way in his direction. Otherwise, you kind of have take it sometimes. That’s life. Anyone who believes otherwise is either extremely privileged *coughcough* or merely deceiving themselves. What about other people who SERIOUSLY (I’m using caps for emphasis a la jarpad) have to take SERIOUS NEGATIVITY just because they need to be able to survive?
I’m truly sorry that the existence of my hurt disappointed you, and I wish you peace and happiness. With love, jp
How passive aggressive. He’s truly sorry that anyone dared to call him out on his own bullying tactics. Boy, have an entire stadium of seats and go back to McDonald’s.
The fact that he doesn’t go into specifics probably means that he’s making a huge mountain out of a molehill. I have also seen previous tweets where he calls out bars and restaurants for making him wait too long, etc, so I get the sense that he’s probably not even a decent customer in the first place. Still, there are two sides to every story and we only have one here. I don’t doubt that he wasn’t deeply hurt or whatever, but this isn’t exactly the first time he’s reacted in such a manner. And I don’t believe that stooping to someone’s level makes you any better than they are.
Ergo, Jared Padalecki is still ‘stupid’ and ‘senseless’ and completely unwarranted in posting this girl’s image online to millions of strangers. And his entire follow-up post was just so pathetic and not even funny. I just felt sorry for him. Not because he’s upset, but because he has no sense of what’s right or wrong. He’s always looking for someone to kiss his ass, pat him on the head and validate every emotion he has. When it doesn’t go his way, he’ll throw in something about his anxiety and depression and try to make excuses and his annoying fans will lap it up.
I always wonder who these nameless (to me at least, lest I actually spot someone I know making such a comment!), obsessed, ridiculous people are that post support without asking any questions. I long for the day that I can just see one of them in action – witness the frenzied outrage and internet pada-gangstas, so desperate to defend their overlord and master.
And why not, he’s a superhero after all *snort*. Or as my friend put it, he’s a dumbass with a beanie.
Thank you to JM from saving me taking another trip to Rapunzelecki’s FB by sending me the text. And thanks to Anna for helping me save a pic and the ‘dumbass with a beanine’ line 😛 ! And thank you to ExPadaFan (hee) for allowing me to post their comment. Until next time.